We all like to be praised rather than punished. The same is true for your cat, and that’s the theory behind positive reinforcement. Positive reinforcement means giving your pet something pleasant or rewarding immediately after he or she does something you want him or her to do. Because your praise or reward makes him or her more likely to repeat that behavior in the future, it is one of your most powerful tools for shaping or changing your cat’s behavior. It’s more effective to teach your pet what he or she should do than try to teach him or her what they shouldn’t.
Correct timing is essential when sign positive reinforcement. The reward must occur immediately within seconds or your cat may not associate it with the proper action. For example, when your cat uses her scratching post, you can throw a piece of dry cat food for him or her to chase as a reward. Many cats enjoy chasing (hunting) their food and it’s good exercise too. but if you throw the food when he or she has stopped scratching the post and is walking toward you, he or she will think they are being rewarded for coming to you.
Consistency is also an important element in training. Everyone in the family should reward the same desired behaviors.
Using Positive Reinforcement
Positive reinforcement may include food treats, praise, petting, or a favorite toy or game. When your pet is first learning a new behavior, such as clawing the scratching post instead of your couch, he or she should be rewarded every time you catch him or her using the scratching post. You may even help shape his or hers behavior of using the scratching post by spraying it with catnip (if she reacts positively to catnip) or enticing him or her with a toy that you dangle on the post. Taking your cat over to the scratching post, positioning their paws on the post, and raking them along the post to show him or her what they are supposed to do will likely have the opposite effect of encouraging him or her to use the post. She may interpret your actions as frightening and uncomfortable. It’s important to look at the world from his or hers point of view.
Once your cat reliably offers the desired behavior, you may reward him or her with treats intermittently, for example, three our of every four times he or she does the behavior. Then, over time, reward him or her about half the time, then about a third of the time, and so on, until you’re only rewarding occasionally with a treat. Continue to praise every time. Your cat will learn that if he or she keeps offering desired behaviors, eventually he or she will get what they want - your praise and an occasional treat. You won’t be forever bound to carry a pocket full of goodies, but it’s fun to surprise your cat from time to time.
The Pros and Cons of Punishment
Punishment can be verbal, postural or physical and is meant to make your pet immediately associate something unpleasant when he or she doesn’t something you don’t want them to do. The punishment makes it less likely that they behavior will occur again. To be effective, punishment must be delivered while your pet is engaged in the undesirable behavior - in other words, “caught in the act”. If the punishment is delivered too late, even seconds later, your pet will not associate the punishment with the undesired behavior. The punishment will seem unpredictable to your pet.
Remember, cats do not act our of spite or revenge, and they don’t have a moral sense of right and wrong. Never use physical punishment that involves discomfort or pain as this may cause him or her to bite, defend him or herself or resort to other undesirable behaviors. Holding your cat’s neck skin and shaking him or her may result in a frightened cat whom scratches or bites to defend themself. Punishment might be associated with other stimuli, including people, which are present at the time the punishment occurs. For example, a cat this is punished for getting too close to a new baby may become fearful or, or aggressive toward, that baby - or toward other babies. That’s why physical punishment is not only bad for your cat; it’s also bad for you and others.
Punishment delivered by you may erode your cat’s trust and frighten him or her. That’s why punishment is most effective when it does not come directly from you. For example, if your cat enjoys searching the couch, you may apply special double-sided tape to those surfaces. Cats rarely like tacky paws. Your cat will perceive the couch, instead of you, as delivering the punishment. In this way, too, your cat is more likely to avoid the undesirable behavior when you’re not around. However, it is critical that while discouraging undesirable behaviors, you help your cat understand what you want him or her to do and provide appropriate outlets for normal cat behaviors.